Choose Not The Most Beautiful Person In The World, But The Right Person

The world can always suddenly take on a more beautiful, sparkling and motivating hue if you have the right person by your side. We know that it is not easy to establish bonds and affective relationships that truly enrich our lives. But for this we should not give up. Love is always worth it.

It is also common that there comes a point throughout our maturity in which we stop valuing physical beauty so much. This is because we learn that what really counts is finding someone who knows how to harmonize with our values. Someone who allows us to grow and give light to the daily coexistence, to the small details. In this space we invite you to reflect on it.

The world is always prettier with the right person

Positive relationships are those that above all respect spaces, opinions, judgments and values. And that, in addition, they favor our personal growth.

Finding the right life partner certainly requires making mistakes more than once. However, as we move forward and are fully aware of what we want and what we don’t, we will find the right person. Take note now of what characteristics these people can have capable of brightening our world.

Who loves you does not judge you

Maybe in your social circle you have the classic people who look at your performances with a magnifying glass. Those who dare to judge your words as if they themselves were possessors of universal truths.

People who enrich your world don’t judge. They attend and advise. They do not punish with their words or use irony as a control and manipulation mechanism.

With the right person, healthy attachment can occur that does not limit

Healthy relationships are based on an attachment that allows us to grow as a couple and individually. Now, on the other side of the scale there would undoubtedly be these dimensions:

• Anxious attachment defines that person who is afraid of being abandoned. He seeks to control at all times because his relationship is based on insecurity and low self-esteem.

• Avoidant attachment, on the other hand, is one where there is only coldness. There is no support and it is characterized by a selfish interest where one of the parties can suffer that physical and emotional emptiness.

Same values ​​and respect for differences

A happy, stable and mature couple does not have to agree on everything. There are different interests, aspirations and even hobbies. Even our personality may be somewhat different, but something that needs to be agreed on are values.

• Values ​​are what unite us in the same vital projects.  They are the ones that harmonize our emotions, principles and personal spaces.

• A couple that respects their differences denotes that there is harmony in the relationship. The people who create a much more beautiful world are those who enrich themselves with what the other can contribute.

Personal growth is respected and encouraged

Something that usually happens in many relationships is that there comes a time when many personal aspirations begin to be limited. Even spaces that previously identified us are limited.

It is common for us to put aside certain hobbies, friends and even personal dreams, and this is not a sign that the other is the right person for you.

• Those who respect the couple’s personal space trust each other. This allows them to remain the same with each of their passions, social relationships, and career aspirations.
• The act of favoring personal spaces is a way of investing in the couple’s own common space. A person happy for who he is becomes someone who can enrich the relationship much more.

Start by making your own world beautiful

We have talked to you about how ideal it is to find someone who knows how to make your day to day a more interesting, intense and beautiful scene. And of the characteristics that the appropriate person for you or the interpersonal relationships that you have may have.

Now, at this point, we cannot forget an essential point either: do not depend on others to find your happiness.  Start by creating the life you really want to live, the one that identifies you.

• One of the most famous studies in our history is the so-called “Grant Study”. It lasted about 70 years and its purpose was to find out what was the origin of true happiness.

• The conclusion reached can be guessed: for most people the fact of “loving and being loved” is synonymous with absolute happiness.
• But we must bear in mind that, if we focus our lives only on this search, on that of loving and being loved, we will forget a very important pillar. And this is the need to love ourselves.

Feeling loved is without a doubt something very beautiful. However, sometimes that search can take us a lifetime. So the best thing is to start today to make our world beautiful. Whoever we are: young, old, tall, short, single, or couples of wonderful people.

It starts with wanting it. That is, get excited about new projects where you are always the true protagonist of your adventure theater. Life with you is a wonderful place.